Rejecting Hope No Longer // Day 28

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Rejecting Hope No Longer // Day 28
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In episode 235, we continue with 31 Days exploring 31 passages on hope. Each day I pray, pull out a mystery verse, and process live, so that I am not sharing as an “expert”, but one vulnerably exploring what hope is and how I may be rejecting it.

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In 2025, I found myself
wrestling with frustration that

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God was not giving me joy.
And then God very patiently told

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me what was actually happening.
It wasn’t that he was

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withholding joy, it was that I
was rejecting it.

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What followed was an invitation
to spend 30 days looking at 30

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passages on Joy and turning it
into a devotional called

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Rejecting Joy No longer.
You’d think I would have learned

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that coming into 2026, I was
wrestling with hope.

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God, why are you making me so
hopeless?

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And God very patiently let me
know the reality.

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He wasn’t withholding hope.
I was rejecting it.

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And so now here I am, spending
30 days looking at 30 passages

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on hope.
And my hope is that this

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encourages you.
One thing that’s different this

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year is I felt like God was
inviting me to be publicly

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transparent with my processing.
To actually go live on social

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media, pull out a random verse,
and then read and process

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through it on camera.
This isn’t me coming to you as

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an expert on hope, but me coming
to you honestly as someone

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wrestling with hope.
And by witnessing that some of

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you might feel less alone, may
feel seen and understood, may

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end up being encouraged in a way
that is far deeper than the best

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platitude.
So join me as I spend 30 days

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navigating 30 passages on Hope.
This is day 28.

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You’re listening to episode 235
of the Where Did You See Guide

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podcast.
Father God, I just want to thank

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you that you were God and you
were good.

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And I thank you for the ways
that you’re working and moving

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not just within me, but within
others, whether I hear about it

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or not.
Thank you for your word.

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Thank you for the promise that
you were a God of hope and your

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patience as we figure out what
that means.

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So Father God, I invite you to
guide us to verse today.

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Holy Spirit, move.
Give us ears to hear.

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Protect us from our own own
limited creativity and help us

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to be open to your reality.
Name.

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Amen.
First Peter hanging in that New

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Testament.
But in your hearts honor Christ

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the Lord as holy, always being
prepared to make a defense to

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anyone who asks you for a reason
for the hope that is in you.

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Yet do it with gentleness and
respect in this day and time.

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I have lots of thoughts, folks.
Let me pull up the full passage

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before I get into them.
All right, let’s start in verse

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8 because that’s the section
that contains this.

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The section before has stuff
that would be a whole

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conversation in and of itself.
So first Peter 3, starting in

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verse 8.
Finally, all of you be like

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minded, be sympathetic, love one
another, be compassionate and

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humble.
Do not repay evil with evil or

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insult with insult.
On the contrary, repay evil with

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blessing, because to this you
were called so that you may

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inherit a blessing.
For whoever would love life and

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see good days must keep their
tongue from evil and their lips

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from deceitful speech.
They must turn from evil and do

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good.
They must seek peace and pursue

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it, for the eyes of the Lord are
on the righteous, and his ears

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are attentive to their prayer.
But the face of the Lord is

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against those who do evil.
Who is going to harm you if you

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are eager to do good?
But even if you should suffer

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for what is right, you are
blessed.

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Do not fear their hearts, do not
be frightened, but in your

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hearts Revere Christ as Lord.
Always be prepared to give an

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answer to everyone who asks you
to give the reason for the hope

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that you have.
But do this with gentleness and

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respect, keeping a clear
conscience, so that those who

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speak maliciously against your
good behaviour in Christ may be

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ashamed of their slander.
For it is better if it is God’s

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will to suffer for doing good
than for doing evil.

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For Christ also suffered once
for sins, the righteous for the

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unrighteous, to bring you to
God.

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He was put to death in the body,
but made alive in the Spirit.

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After being made alive, he went
and made proclamation to the

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imprisoned spirits, to those who
were disobedient long ago, when

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God waited patiently in the days
of Noah while the ark was being

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built.
And he keeps on going about

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Noah.
Which is good, but for our

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context.
If you caught my reactions when

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reading it, I feel like it is
not uncommon for people who

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identify as Christian to latch
onto this passage without the

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full context.
In particular, always being

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prepared to make a defense to
anyone who asks you for a reason

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for the hope that is in you.
There are many who identify as

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Christian who very much can be
defensive and or can feel a

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responsibility to fight for and
protect God, protect his honor,

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to protect Christianity.
My caution is that that snippet

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of the verse is part of a verse
that also includes yeah, do it

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with gentleness, respect, but is
part of a passage that is very

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explicitly clear around who we
are supposed to be.

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Be like minded, be sympathetic,
love one another, be

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compassionate and humble.
Do not repay evil with evil or

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insult with insult.
I laughed at that part because

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I’ve seen plenty, plenty of
social media threads where

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someone who identifies as
Christian met insult with

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insult.
On the contrary, repay evil with

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blessing.
Not just don’t insult, but

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blessing, but in your hearts
Revere Christ is Lord.

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Pause there for a second.
I think there are plenty of

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people who would claim that the
things that they do, the defense

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they make is to honor Christ.
But this is not saying overtly

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honor Christ.
This is saying in your hearts

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honor Christ the Lord is holy,
or as it puts it here, in your

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hearts Revere Christ as Lord.
Why is that different?

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What it looks like to honor
Christ overtly, to stand in

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front of somebody and say Christ
is Lord, is very different than

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what it looks like for you to
actually honor him in your

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heart, for you to say I defer to
you.

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Sometimes the Christ we’re
honoring is actually an image of

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him that we’ve made an idea of
Him that we carry.

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The best way to know if that’s
happening is if the Christ

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you’re following does not match
the Christ of Scripture, a

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Christ who loved his enemies.
This is not a call to

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defensiveness because Jesus
doesn’t need us to defend him.

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Like, he didn’t even defend
himself when he was

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misrepresented, because he knew
there was something greater than

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here and now justice.
He knew that if he had defended

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himself, it would only be
protecting himself, and he was

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much more keen on protecting
humanity than himself.

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So Jesus doesn’t need us to
defend him.

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God doesn’t need us to defend
him.

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There’s stories in the Old
Testament where the Ark of the

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Covenant, that is where God
chose to give himself a physical

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embodiment among the people,
that when they were honoring him

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and caring, nobody could do
anything against him.

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When they would lose the ark.
God doesn’t become defenseless.

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There’s stories where enemy
nations took the ark and they

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put it right beside their God
and their God’s statue fell down

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and like the head fell off and
the whole town got sores and

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like God can take care of
himself.

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So this is not a call to arms to
protect Jesus, to protect God.

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Let’s read what it actually
says.

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Always being prepared to make a
defense to anyone who asks you

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for a reason for the hope that
is in you.

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Always be prepared to give an
answer to everyone who asks you

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to give the reason for the hope.
Again, I find myself leaning

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more towards the NIV.
Sorry for those that don’t like

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the NIV, but I feel like that
captures it in an important way

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that’s hitting it what I’ve been
sitting with.

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Give an answer to everyone who
asks you to give the reason for

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the hope.
I think what’s fresh on my mind

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is a friend of mine shared
publicly in a post how they grew

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up in a Christian home,
identified as a Christian for a

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while, and no longer do so
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doesn’t make sense about it.
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me to give the reason for the
hope that I have, what would my

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response be?
What would be a response that

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matches all the parameters given
here to be like, minus

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sympathetic?
Love one another, be

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compassionate and humble, Do not
repay evil, evil insult for

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insult.
That in my heart I’m revering

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Christ as Lord and that I’m
responding with gentleness and

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respect.
Should I get angry at this

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person or would I respond as
with a friend because they are a

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friend and be honest in my
processing of hope, which, let’s

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be clear, I’ve been trying to do
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Not trying to prove you have to
have hope, but to come to all of

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you and say, hey, yeah, I want
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I’m wrestling with this hope
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All right, let’s say this isn’t
a friend who no longer

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identifies as Christian.
Let’s say I’ve got another

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friend.
They identify as agnostic

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atheist, and they grew up in a
faith tradition that really

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pushed the fear of God, really
pushed punishment, really pushed

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hell, did not seem to push love
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And so this person began reading
scripture and saw a lot that did

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not look like a loving God.
And that’s been his big question

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is can you just show me where in
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loving?
Because I see a lot of stuff

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that’s not loving.
He can feel strongly about his

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issues with someone like me
saying God is love, right?

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And we have really good
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But there are others that come
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They see him as the enemy and
they respond accordingly that

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the goal in that interaction is
to prove him wrong or to shut

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him down.
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that’s what they’re doing.
They believe that they are doing

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a good Christian thing and
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But I’m referring to a podcast,
so this is how I’m Privy to

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these conversations.
I will watch these conversations

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and just cringe inside because
even though they want their

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intentions to be good, the way
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is not matching what this
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If the hope that is in US is
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these passages are talking
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would evoke a certain type of
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hopefulness, responsive love, or
responsive gentleness because of

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the very nature of what it is.
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resulting in defensiveness,
antagonism, insults, anger, I

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would urge you to pause, step
back, and really define that

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hope.
Give a reason for the hope that

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you have.
You got to pull back and

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actually figure out what that
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Do you know what hope it is that
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If the fruit of that defense
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Christ and the fruits of the
Spirit, then you may have hope

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in something different than what
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If your hope is what these
passages are talking about, you

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do not need to have fear and how
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this is the other end of the
spectrum where I mean we really

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are genuinely trying to seek God
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Always be prepared to make a
defense to anyone who asked for

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a reason for the I don’t know.
Some days I don’t know why I’m

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following God.
I how am I going to give a

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defense to anyone who asks how
am I going to always be

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prepared?
Look, Scripture makes it clear

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that this hope comes with the
Spirit and the Spirit it says in

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Scripture can give you words
when you need them, can help you

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understand how to respond, can
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Even your response does not need
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You don’t need to defend it in
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You don’t need to answer it in
the sense of making it

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objectively clear.
You are simply being invited to

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be honest about why you are at
the table, why you stay at the

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table.
And you can do so even as you

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still have questions.
So this is not meant to be a

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call to fighting, and it’s not
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It’s inviting us to be honest
about why we are trusting this

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hope.
And when you do, and if you do

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it in this way, it’s going to,
people are going to see it and

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it’s not going to be this
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You said something that got
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They’re going to see something.
And in most cases, this verse

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indicates it’s going to go well
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People are going to respond
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But there may be moments and
says who is going to harm you if

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you are eager to do good?
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for what is right, you are
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Do not for your threats.
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For it is better if it is God’s
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than for doing evil.
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If this hope is real that we’ve
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to call for a different way of
seeing the world and engaging

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with the world, and that’s going
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It is going to raise questions
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ready for those questions that
when somebody asks why in the

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world are you hopeful?
Why are you holding to this hope

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in this eternity when when we
die, we die, you’re going to get

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these questions.
And that is an opportunity to be

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honest and present with that
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That’s an act of love, to be
honest and present with them and

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just to share what’s on your
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And remember that the best
position for your heart is in

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this moment to honor Christ the
Lord is holy, or to Revere

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Christ as Lord, not just as a
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It’s a whole other thing.
I’ll read both versions again.

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First Peter 315 But in your
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as holy, always being prepared
to make a defense to anyone who

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asked you for a reason for the
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Yet do it with gentleness and
respect, and but in your hearts

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Revere Christ as Lord.
Always be prepared to give an

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answer to everyone who asks you
to give the reason for the hope

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that you have, but do this with
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Father God, we thank You that
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And we thank You that it is not
on us to prove you and it is not

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on us to defend or protect you.
We can’t.

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You are in all power for God.
So help us to understand what

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the invitation is here.
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to be your ambassador, that when
someone asks us the reason for

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the hope that is in us, we have
an opportunity to represent.

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Are we going to represent you
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We want to do the former.
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So Holy Spirit move within us to
better represent all of what the

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Scripture actually is saying to
embody love.

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Let’s famous holy name, Amen.